Today I have a big announcement for you and a cool lesson that will help improve all your dates.
The announcement is that I am putting out something brand new. It’s a book of every routine I’ve created in my 9 years of pickup. It’s 139 routines total. The package also includes audio of me and some of the other coaches delivering the routine and explaining why they work and when to use them. Stay tuned, I am releasing it on Friday, March 1st.
Now on to our lesson.
I have a student who does one on one sessions with all the time
He actually gets laid a lot. He f*cks about 2-3 new girls a month.
His main complaint is that “women don’t accept me as a man.” He’s always saying “women don’t view me as a leader, they view me as a child.”
The reality of the situation is that women like to test you every day. Most women will not accept your leadership or “accept you as a man” unless you demonstrate to them every single day that you are their leader and you are a man.
Any woman you spend time with will test you multiple times per day. They love to go to war. It’s their idea of a good time.
Multiple times a day, a woman will try to get to you to expose any weakness in your confidence.
Women want to know if you have an Achilles’ heel. If you do have one and they can find it, they are going to try to exploit it all the time.
This is the only way they can tell if you are an Alpha male or Beta male. It’s very important for them to find this out. That’s why they test you every day.
If you’re waiting for the day to come when women stop testing you, you’re going to be waiting a long time.
So here’s three ways to beat the tests:
1- Be unreactive
2- Use physical teasing
3- Tease them back using instinctual fears
We’re going to use an example from my one-on-one student so you can see how each technique works.
In our example my student was walking through the parking lot on a date and the woman said to him “Hey just in case you can’t find your car let’s split up and see who will get there first.”
My student feels that this means she did not accept his leadership and she wanted to challenge him or take a leadership role herself.
1- Be unreactive: You would just say to the girl “Oh you’re funny. Hey, the cars over here. Come with me.”
In this case you’re not really validating her protest or taking it seriously. Just sidestep it and ignore it.
Sometimes you can literally ignore these tests and not respond at all. Just don’t address it at all and say “So what did you think of the movie?”
2- Use physical teasing
The idea here is to use playful physical aggressiveness to make the woman feel dominated.
For example, tickling her, picking her up, or smacking her ass would all be examples of playful physical teasing.
In our example, when she says “Hey let’s split up in case you can’t find the car,” you would just say “It’s that way,” then pick her up, throw her over your shoulder, and walk towards where you think the car is. Don’t try this if your date is in excess of 175 pounds. Safety first 🙂
You could also say “piggyback time” and just put her on your back and start walking.
The third technique is to tease the girl using instinctual fears.
Example of this technique would be to say “Well we could split up but the only problem is there’s actually a lot of bears in this parking lot. I wouldn’t want to see you get eaten by bears so we should probably walk together.”
Women have certain instinctual fears and you can use these to create comedy.
Some of these fears include being eaten by animals, abandonment, being alone in the woods, being alone in the dark, you get the idea.
When you bring one of these fears up in a joking manner it can create good comedy and you pass a test in a very simple way.
The most important thing is that you should never take these tests too seriously.
It’s just something women do. It’s normal. They’re going to do it to you every day.
If you don’t like women to test, and you find it hurtful, you need to change the way you look at things.
It’s not that serious. It’s not that big of a deal.
You’re kidding yourself if you think that these tests are serious assaults on your manhood.
I myself get tested by women all the time.
All the other coaches that work for me get tested women by women all the time.
If you think you’re gonna be different you’re wrong. You’re going to get tested just like we get tested.
The only difference is that we don’t take it seriously we have techniques to beat these tests.
Beating tests is a very easy skill to learn.
Try out these 3 simple ways to beat a test and you will be home free.