Working Too Hard Can Make You a Loser

Wed, 25/02/2015

The major part of game that I find most guys neglect is
developing their IDENTITY.

Nothing will work if you have the identity of a loser.

You’ll always communicate low value.

Perhaps you identify some areas that need work:

Going to the gym would help…

…Maybe an improve class or acting lessons would make
you more socially adept.

But that gym membership doesn’t amount to much, and you
never get around to doing that comedy class.

You just do the usual 20 minutes a day reading seduction
websites while at work then listen to a seduction CD on
the car ride home.

…As a result, your identity and personality don’t
really change much.

Every time I see this happen, I ask the guy how many
hours a week he works:

The answer is usually somewhere around 50, 60, 80 hours
a week.

If you’re not progressing very fast, there’s a good
chance it’s because you’re working too much.

You are not going to improve very quickly if you work
that more than 40 hours a week.

Enriching your identity is a HUGE UNDERTAKING. You need
time. You need focus. You need leeway for experimentation.

Work less. Change jobs if you have to. Change careers.
Get demoted. Do something.

All you’re doing is making your boss richer and chasing
a paycheck that doesn’t improve your life as much as
free time would.

You’re cheating yourself by working so much.

Think about how the average college student lives:

Constantly building social circle, constantly trying to
develop himself. Scraping by financially, but getting
laid quite a bit.

It’s a more effective lifestyle than someone who works
75 hours and buys a big house that women never come to.

…Just being in the PROCESS of developing your identity
makes you give off a special energy that is attractive
to women.

And that’s all you need to start.

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Talk soon,

Brad P.