A lot of guys I coach claim that I can’t relate to them.
They think I’m just a “natural” and I don’t understand
what it is to be awkward and shy around girls.
I can’t feel their pain and I don’t understand.
“You don’t understand Brad. It’s different for you.”
I know better than most guys what it’s like to be
painfully shy and awkward around girls.
For me, the nightmare started in high school.
Even though I was captain of the basketball team and
joined a band, I did not have ONE SINGLE DATE with a
girl from my high school.
I was frustrated and didn’t know what the hell I was
going to do.
So I went to a college that was 75% women. Better odds
I had some sporadic luck in college and had a few
girlfriends. But it was like I only got laid due to
random luck. I couldn’t get it when I WANTED IT.
A few years later I was living in Queens New York and
went through a bad break up with my, then, girlfriend.
I was totally afraid I’d never get a woman like her
again. It was a low point for me.
So I decided I was going to do whatever it took to get
good with women.
It was a decision. And when you make up your mind that
you are going to get it done, that’s it, period… that’s
when things happen.
I learned everything I could from every good book that
was available at that time.
Then I got in with a group of naturals.
I could go out with these guys, study them, and sort of
reverse engineer their success.
I spent the next twelve months going out and meeting
women every single day.
To be honest with you, in the beginning, there was only
fear: the fear of rejection, the fear of embarrassment,
and the fear of criticism.
So to combat fear, I took a job handing out fliers on
the streets of NYC.
This compressed so many rejections into such a short
period of time, that my fear of strangers quickly
I learned that it wasn’t that hard to get women to stop
and talk. Even getting phone numbers wasn’t that hard.
After a few months of this, I learned how to get phone
numbers, dates, and sex on the first date.
I was flying high and loving life. All the hard work was
finally paying off.
You want to find out how I did it?