Build Her and She Will Come

Wed, 03/08/2016

I spend most of my time in this newsletter talking about
approaching women and social skills.

Sometimes I don’t give enough attention to the subject
of online dating.

But that’s an area we definitely need to focus on
because pretty much every single woman uses apps or
online dating sites now…

…that’s really becoming the place to find them these
days.

Most guys are flocking to these online dating apps too.

For most guys they seem like a better bet than cold
approach.

But the thing is….

…Most guys don’t know how to do it.

If fact there’s a specific glaring mistake I see
literally ALL THE FUCKING TIME…

…Being “Needy” and Approval Seeking.

But this one is also the easiest most powerful one to
reverse, once you understand how.

Let me explain…

In every profile, guys lay out facts about themselves.
That’s how men communicate – they transmit data.

What’s worse though, is that they do so in a “hey, look
at me – I’m trying to impress you” kind of way. Which
translates into just two words in a woman’s head:

Needy. Douchebag.

What’s less obvious and highly unattractive about this
is that the man is clearly seeking the woman’s approval.
He wants her to find him to be “amazing” and validate
his insecurities with her interest/desire.

Unfortunately, THIS NEVER WORKS.

Being needy will dry her pussy up fast.

But you can reverse that common approach…

…Instead, you can get them to SEEK YOUR APPROVAL… by
conjuring up an image of an awesome woman – who is
EXACTLY what you want.

Build her and she will come.

The first benefit of conjuring up your ideal women is
that the exact kind of woman you want will see herself
in your words – before you even meet she will feel
understood, recognized and appreciated – which is
incredibly arousing to them.

And you’re the magic man who did it.

The second benefit of this power flip is that it also
serves as a FILTER to PREVENT the women you DON’T want
from writing you.

This alone, saves you a ton of time.

If you say positive – the cynical women won’t write.

If you say “edgy, sexy and cool,” the prim, uptight
girls won’t write you.

You Lead. They Follow.

But again, that’s why it’s imperative you focus your
profile more about HER-and only subtly drop hints about
yourself interwoven into your description of the woman
you’re looking for.

This is something my buddy, and online dating legend,
Ben Lefors did amazingly well in his profile.

Ben received over 2000 emails in 5 months from that one
on different sites…

…College girls, right up into wonderful, accomplished,
professional women.

There are so many women looking for a guy who’s not a
douche (and plenty of them are younger women)!

So as you go back to the drawing board on your Tinder or
other dating site profiles, I encourage you to keep this
tip in mind.

You’ll be very glad you did.

Talk soon,

Brad P.

PS – You want to know how Ben did it (with a little help
from me)?

This short video tells ALL.