I know it can be a MAJOR THING to get over your initial
fear of approaching women and having an interaction.
Sometimes a five minute conversation where she smiles
and doesn’t blow you out you seems like cause for
…And it is.
Enjoy small victories.
But don’t take your eye off the goal.
What I don’t want to see to happen is that you develop into
a guy who can approach girls but can never get laid.
We call that an “approach artist”.
Over the last few years, there’s been a boom in
weak-sauce methodologies that teach guys to approach,
but beyond that, they don’t get results.
The message has become sanitized for the mainstream, and
it become about “building social skills” and “becoming
a better man” etc.
I’m all for building social skills, but if the material
is not getting you laid, then there’s something wrong
with the method.
I actually get contacted regularly by guys who’ve
studied this method or that, and want to know how I’m
I tell them I get results.
I use results and lays and the measuring stick for my
success and that of my students.
Reality doesn’t lie.
So consider this:
If you’ve been approaching for a year or more, and you
can approach but you are showing no progress towards
getting laid, it might be time to try something with a
little more kick.
The amount of blowouts you get along the way doesn’t
matter, as long as it results in you FUCKING her.
That’s usually where I lose a lot of guys – they’re
afraid of the rejection the way a child is afraid of
thunder or loud noises.
It’s a lot of panic and fear over something that is
passing and meaningless.
And so the importance of being able to approach without
getting blown out has been overemphasized by a lot of
It is easier for the teacher to teach, and it caters to
the fears of the student.
It’s telling you what you want to hear, but if you’re
like these desperate horny guys asking me how I’m
different, then it’s not getting you laid.
…Which makes it useless.
If you’ve been on my mailing list for a while, then you
know I don’t do that shit.
I could. I could probably make a lot more money if I
But it wouldn’t help YOU.
If I tell you to do something, it’s because it’s going
to work, not because it’s going to line my pocketbook.
So, that being said:
If you’re ready for something that is NOT safe and wimpy
and WILL get you laid,