Why Alpha Males Get All the Pussy

Fri, 02/09/2016

We had a great talk the other day about social freedom
and how attractive it is to girls.

I want to expand on that a little bit today and talk
about how social anxiety causes you to communicate low
value on many levels…

…And how important it is that you don’t do that.

If you go up to a girl and you do an approach, whatever
material you might be using, if you look nervous, she’s
not going to like you.

If you do it in a nervous way, it communicates low
value.

It’s not very alpha. It’s not very dominant.

And for a man, those are the cornerstones of being
magnetic.

Think about this:

Sometimes when you’re gaming a girl, you end in in the
middle of a group of her friends.

You need to have a relaxed vibe and social skills to
vibe with all of these people.

A lot of people lose their attraction in mid game
because the friends are just like “Nah. I know you
think you like this guy but you don’t, and he needs to
get lost now”.

If a girl’s friends don’t like you because you can’t
really vibe with them because you’re nervous you’re
going to lose a lot of girls for that. A lot.

The truth is this:

You need to be the life of the party to do cold approach
pick-up.

You need to be able to be the smooth guy. You need to
be able to NOT LOOK NERVOUS.

And then there’s the issue of getting physical:

A lot of guys have issues with escalating and getting
physical with girls and they say to themselves “Uh oh.
We’re in public. Is this going to look weird? Does she
think it looks weird?” and then you put out that nervous
vibe to the girl.

And then she picks up on your vibe and starts to feel
physically uncomfortable. Girls are very sensitive to
those vibes.

You’re saying to yourself “Should I kiss her or should I
not kiss her?” You start to put pressure on yourself.
That makes you nervous.

So that’s another form of social anxiety that guys deal
with.

This anxiety runs all throughout your whole game and all
your interactions with women.

The kind of game that I do is pretty aggressive and very
effective, but it requires a high degree of social
freedom, and there are key moments where there’s no time
to think, and there’s no time to go check in the book or
check in the eBook or check on the internet what you
should do.

And those are the times where you either act or you
don’t.

YOU need to be ready to strike in those moments.

I think it was Bruce Lee who said of his fist of fury –
HE doesn’t strike; when the opportunity arises, it hits
all on it’s own.

Talk soon,

Brad P.

PS – Had enough of social anxiety?

Watch this video now and be done with it forever.