Hey it’s Brad,
I was just talking with a client and he was expressing a
little bit of frustration about not getting the hot
women he wants.
I reminded him as gently as I could to put his big boy
pants on and stop putting this girl on a fucking
pedestal just because God randomly endowed her with
This is so, so hard for a lot of guys. We are visually
stimulated and when girls got it, we lose our common
sense and give away our power.
Let me tell you what Aidan said, and then I’ll give you
my words of wisdom:
“Brad I need your help…
I always find myself getting rejected by that smoking
hot girl I like, I muster up the courage to speak with
her but often got shut down or just flat out ignored.
What am I doing wrong?
I used to have the exact same frustration.
…And there’s only one way around it that I know:
Don’t approach one woman and call it a day…
… Approach 10 so you get some practice.
Only with practice will you see improvement.
This is the reality that frustrates a lot of guys. If
you want to approach women and have amazing interactions
that lead to sex, expect it to take some repetition.
The first 3 don’t count; it’s just warm up.
…So don’t worry about those at all.
And be sure to approach hot girls, average girls, and in
between- so you get more practice.
Here’s what I think you’re doing right now:
Go out, find the hottest girl there, get rejected, and
That’s not the way to do it.
You should still approach the hottest girl, but she
should be approach #4 of 10, so you get warmed up first.
Kind of like warm up swings when a baseball player is on
deck to bat.
And here’s a more advanced idea:
When you do this enough, you start to get immune to
You see beautiful girls so much that it just doesn’t
It’s the same way that you get used to anything after
you’ve been exposed to it repeatedly.
And that’s when you have all the power.
PS – Even with warms ups, you need to know how to swing.
If you don’t know exactly how you’re going to approach
and build attraction, then you need to watch this video