Hey it’s Brad,
I was having drinks with a couple of old friends that I’ve coached in the past.
Actually, they were drinking. I was nursing a tonic water.
Ryan, recently single, is back in the field and one thing has been hanging him up:
He’s been trying a lot of new openers – some kind of exotic.
I think one involved an immediate marriage proposal. I don’t remember exactly how it went, but I thought it was kind of douchy.
You might think women love it when they’re swarmed by guys giving them attention, but they don’t.
In fact, women fucking HATE it.
Hot women get hit on A LOT… like almost 100 times each week. If random people came up to me wanting something 100 times a week, I’d be punching people out.
That’s why girls have developed an “Instant Rejection Mechanism” (sometimes known as bitch shields) that’s stopping even the most confident, high profile men dead in their tracks.
The good news is setting yourself apart from all the losers out there is actually really easy, even if your social anxiety is off the charts…
All you have to do is use a little trick I like to call the “Psychologist Opener”.
This trick lets you hack into her “Instant Rejection Mechanism” easily, and the best thing about it is that it works even if you’re petrified of talking to women.
Just say this:
“Hi, my name is ___ and I’m shy. My psychologist told me that I should go out every day and talk to 5 new people. I decided to talk to you because you seem nice.”
Sounds horribly cheesy, I know. But this works amazingly well.
You see, women are hit on by tons of guys pretending to be someone they’re not every day…
And as a result they’ve developed a pretty finely-tuned bullshit meter.
So by using this technique, you’re doing several things…
1) You’re being completely honest and transparent with her…
2) You’re activating her “maternal” instincts, but doing it in a way that’s still showing you’re a high-status guy (you’re facing your fears and improving yourself, after all…)
3) You’re telling her she seems “nice”, so she’ll want to live up to that and is extremely unlikely to immediately “blow you out”.
In short, it’s a technique that’s simple, effective, and pretty much idiot-proof.
Try this out tonight and you’ll be talking to girls and taking numbers in no time.
Go out to your nearest GameStop, shopping mall, or coffee shop. Pick out any girl you like and use what I just taught you word for word and see for yourself just how powerful this can be.
P.S. – One more thing…
This little trick is pretty effective on its own, but if you want to have the power to just pick out almost any hot girl you meet and get her to chase you around like a lost puppy…
You’ll need an entire arsenal of all my BEST seduction techniques.
I put it all together in ONE PLACE.