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The Forbidden Truth

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Happy Tuesday gentlemen.

I'm busy at work in the office making final preparations
to launch my new online dating product, which is going
to absolutely blow you away.

Hopefully we'll have it by the end of the week.

I was just having a conversation with one of my students
who has really been getting out and doing a lot of
approaches lately.

He's kicking ass.

He asked me what he's doing wrong because he feels like
he's doing most of the talking during these
interactions.

I told him that it's very likely there is NOTHING wrong.
Then I gave him a refresher on the 90/10 rule.

The 90/10 rule means that YOU are talking 90% of the
time and the girl is talking 10% of the time.

If that ratio is occurring early on in your approaches
you are doing GREAT.

If she is talking less than 10% of the time, that's not
good cause it's like you're lecturing her.

But girls tend to not talk at all sometimes, so you have
to ask a question, or get her to agree with something
just to get her to hold up her 10%.

If you don't know about this rule, you might sometimes
be feeling like you're not doing well because the girl
isn't talking much (just like my student who called me
this morning).

But that's not the case.

So how do you know if you're doing well?

She's still standing there listening. If she doesn't
walk away, chances are you're doing fine.

That is a USEFUL assumption, even if it's not always
true, because it will make you project confidence.

Besides you couldn't spark massive attraction if SHE
were doing all the talking.

So that's the 90/10 rule: You talk 90% of the time; she
talks 10% of the time.

Got it? Good.

Have trouble knowing what to say when you're doing all
that talking?

Everything you need is in my Underground Dating Seminar.

It's my most comprehensive program for becoming a dating
and seduction master.

Talk soon,

Brad P.

How to Make Her HAPPY You Had a One Night Stand

You want to hear something funny that happens to me all
the time?

I see girls I've slept with while I'm out and about.

And they never give me any shit.

Occasionally their friends will give me shit, but the
girl will usually defend me and call off her attack
bitches.

And this happens because I make it a point to be giving
women positive sexual experiences.

There are ways to frame a one-night stand that make
women happy and appreciative that it happened.

If you're doing this wrong, and hurting the girl's
feelings in the process, that's not good karma and
you're going to run into problems.

Here's how you frame a one-night stand as a positive
experience:

Don't act like you're gonna be her boyfriend. Don't get
all hyped up and make future experience projections if
you don't have any intention of keeping them.

The frame is more like this- "we are both sexual people.
I understand you are a naturally sexy woman and I'd
never view you as a slut. It doesn't matter if you do
this all the time or I do this all the time.

Tonight is the only thing that matters. Live in the
present.

Project sexual comfort. Women LIKE to be seduced under
the proper circumstances and they never want to feel
like a slut.

And here's what you do when you see her in public:

Go say hi. Don't try to hide out, run away or not be
noticed. Be normal and comfortable.

Don't act fucking weird. If you act awkward the girl
will assume you are doing so for a good reason and you
will set loose a flurry of confusion or anger.

Girls always adapt to your frame, so set a frame that
works: I'm a cool guy, I get lots of girls, it's not a
big deal, maybe see you again sometime, maybe not.
You're cool, I'm cool, everyone is happy.

Treat her like a friend. Be happy to see her but don't
hang around too long. This is high value behavior. If
you are high value, people won't question you.

I think this is a timely subject to talk about because
when you get my online dating product which is just
about to come out, you are going to be getting more
pussy that you'll know what to do with.

And if you use my online to fuck a bunch of women and
you live in a small town, a trip to the mall could get
weird real quick.

Now that you know how to play off any post
one-nightstand awkwardness, feel free to go give women
the time of their lives!

Talk soon,

Brad P.

PS - If you want to learn a little more about creating a
powerful frame and holding the right mindset to never
feel low value again, I go into a lot of detail in my Secrets
Of Inner Game seminar
. You may want to check it out.

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