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The Forbidden Truth

The Forbidden Truth - Original

We never talk about this, but...

I want to talk to you about something really important.

A client of mine recently asked me this in an email:

"I had to run a few errands and was not necessarily
going to the mall with the intent to meet girls.

I was in a pretty low state. Not depressed but just
tired and not really talkative. As I'm walking
throughout the mall I keep catching girls looking at me.

I walk into American eagle and the girl there tells me,
"I usually hang around half an hour after work", and I
just said, "oh sucks".

What's a good exercise or anything really to be in
state?? I just hate it that I can't talk at all when I'm
low energy."

Here are my comments:

It's not necessary to talk to girls every time you leave
the house or to force yourself to talk to women when you
really don't want to.

If you do, you will eventually grow to dread talking to
women and have a bad attitude.

Now on to your question about state:

There's 2 parts of getting your state up.

1. Living in a good state at all times.

Some people just live in a high state. When it's time to
talk to girls they don't need to go through a bunch of
exercises, they are already almost there.

Identify the things that put you in a bad mood, and
eliminate these from your life.

Also, take the things that make you feel good and do
them more. Add new things that make you feel good.

If your job is killing your state, change jobs. If
playing sports is putting you in a good mood, double the
amount of time you are doing this.

2. Getting "in state" in order to meet girls.

Here are a few tips on that:

Physical movement can help your state. If you are
planning to go out and meet girls, put on loud music and
dance in your bedroom.

It may sound silly, but it will get you feeling good

Texting girls you already know can also get you in a
good mood, it gives you some short-term validation.

Being in a good state of mind is one of the key secret
weapons of guys who are really good with women.

It's something you need to have down if you want to

And if you're ready to learn more about it, I've got the
perfect thing:

Check out Secrets of Inner Game.

I'll cut through some of the fluff and give you the key
techniques to get yourself in state every time you go

She'll want to fuck you based on your good vibe alone.

Chicks love good vibes.

Talk soon,

Brad P.

If It Ain't Getting You Laid, It's Broken

The last thing in the world I want for you is to turn
into an "approach artist".

You need to be careful that you haven't developed into a
guy who can approach girls but can never get laid.

Over the last few years, there's been a boom in
weak-sauce methodologies that teach guys to approach,
but beyond that, they don't get results.

The message has become sanitized for the mainstream, and
it's become about "building social skills" and "becoming
a better man" etc.

I'm all for building social skills, but if the material
is not getting you laid, then there's something wrong
with the method.


So if you've been approaching for a year or more, and
you can approach but you are showing no progress towards
getting laid, it might be time to try something with a
little more kick.

The amount of blowouts you get along the way doesn't
matter, as long as it results in you FUCKING her.


The importance of being able to approach without getting
blown out has been overemphasized by a lot of dating

It is easier for the teacher to teach, and it caters to
the fears of the student.

It feels all warm and fuzzy, but it doesn't get you

If you've been on my mailing list for a while, then you
know I don't do that shit.

I could. I could probably make a lot more money if I

But it wouldn't get you laid.

If I tell you to do something, it's because it's going
to work, not because it's going to line my pocketbook.

So, that being said:

If your ready for something that is NOT safe and wimpy
and WILL get you laid, watch this video now.

Talk soon,

Brad P.

PS - Guys, everything I teach is field-tested. There is
no feel good fluff, just lethal effectiveness. My Black
Book Method
is not politically correct, but you will have
fun with it and it will get you pulling hot girls whenever
you want.

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