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What She Really Means by “Nice Guy”

Sun, 28/08/2016

There are some stark realities that men today are
facing.

Most of us are now primarily raised by female teachers
and mothers.

Young boys just aren’t getting much time with adult male
role models.

Because of this, we get a totally warped idea of what
“being nice” means, and it is a set of FEMALE social
skills.

Here is what that looks like:

Be cooperative, be submissive, be a team player, don’t
rock the boat, don’t speak up too much, do whatever you
can to please others, and you will be rewarded in the
end.

THAT is what our mothers and teachers mean when they say
“you should be nice when you get to school. Be nice to
the other kids. Be nice to your grandmother” and things
like that.

But something you must understand is this:

When you switch to the dating context, women say “I want
a nice guy” and this has a TOTALLY DIFFERENT MEANING!

I can’t stress this enough to you.

The meaning of the word “nice” now has no resemblance to
the meaning we grew up with. It might as well be a
completely different word.

Now I’m going to give you the definition of the word
“nice” as used by women in the context of dating and
relationships:

(This is fairly complex, so try to keep an open mind.)

A “nice guy” is a guy who she is already attracted to.
She wants this guy BADLY.

Instead of ignoring her or choosing a different woman
over her, he shows interest in her, gives her
compliments, and gives her attention. He doesn’t have to
do this; he’s doing it because he is “nice”, or
basically a good human being.

A “nice guy” is a guy who is totally dominant over her,
and she would STILL be attracted to him if he did
terrible things to her.

If he cheated on her or roughed her up, she would still
be attracted to him. But since he is “nice,” he decided
to never hit her and never cheat on her, even though he
could IF HE WANTED TO.

A “nice guy” is a guy who could do terrible things and
not lose the girl, but CHOOSES not to.

A “nice guy” is a guy who she has total respect for, and
is even a bit scared of…

…But instead of capitalizing on this fear to exploit
her or damage her, the guy decides to have a reasonable
healthy relationship with her.

A “nice guy” is a guy who makes all the decisions she
doesn’t want to make, and generally comes up with
choices that result in happiness for both people.

He takes charge and gives her what she wants, even when
she is not aware of what she wants.

This is an absolute and totally different definition of
nice guy that what men are brought up to believe.

Are you starting to see why men are so fucking confused
in the dating world and women are all lamenting about
“where have all the good guys gone?”

I’ll bet you’ve seen a lot of evidence of this in your
own lives.

If you have an example or a story to share, I’d love to
hear it.

Talk soon,

Brad P.

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What Stand Up Comedy Can Teach You About Attraction

Fri, 26/08/2016

Hey it’s Brad,

For some of you guys who’ve been around a while, you
know I know a thing or two about attracting and seducing
gorgeous women.

I’ve learned all this through extensive application over
many years…

…And after years of research and testing, I’ve come to
the conclusion that preplanned, scripted openers are the
most effective way to open new women.

For some men, this idea of being “scripted” may be a
hard pill to swallow.

We’d all like to believe that we could just walk up to a
woman and say “Hi, what’s your name?” and have her
totally captivated and attracted.

For most men, including me, that’s just not the case. If
something as simple as that was working for you, you
probably wouldn’t be reading this newsletter.

I’m not suggesting that “Hi, how are you?” will never
work.

I’ve seen it work here and there for guys who are
extremely good looking, charming, or have amazing body
language. However, my goal in everything I do is to
give you strategies that can work for EVERYONE, not just
guys who look like models.

So if you are really stuck on the idea of walking up to
women and saying “hi there” go right ahead and try it
out.

Then after you’ve experienced the low success rate of
this technique first hand, come on back here and get to
work learning some openers.

“Hi there” is what everyone does.

You must set yourself apart from all the annoying men
who bore women with this lame approach.

If you do exactly what everyone else does, you will get
exactly what everyone else gets:

Laid occasionally.

Look…

Women like men who can make them laugh, so think of
yourself as a stand up comedian.

Comedians don’t get up on stage and talk off the top of
their head. They plan ahead and prepare the BEST
POSSIBLE MATERIAL.

Then they evaluate the vibe of the audience and do the
routines that they think will work best.

Then when things are going well, they start to flow into
more spontaneous interaction with the audience.

Like a stand up comedian, you can deliver a few funny
things to start off, and then get into a natural flow of
conversation once you break the ice.

I encourage you to open your mind to new ideas on how to
talk to women, starting with scripted openers.

Are you feeling open minded?

You can learn a few of my killer openers right here.

Talk soon,

Brad P.

Keeping Your Fuck Buddy Happy

Thu, 25/08/2016

Hey it’s Brad,

When you start meeting a lot of women, sooner or later
you’ll find one who wants to rope you into a long-term
relationship.

It happened to all of the top guys.

It happens to me all the time.

Women have this annoying tendency to want to KEEP the
guys who really turn them on.

Human nature. You can’t fight it.

One of my subscribers, Chris, is going through this
right now and kind of having a panic attack.

Here’s what he said:

———

“I’m dating a girl, but I don’t want a relationship with
her. She wants to stay with me anyway and I fear that
she’s in love, although I don’t feel the same.

Should I end it now?

“The thing is, I’m going off to college in September,
and I want a clean slate. She knows this and wants to
spend these next two months with me.

“We get on and really like each other, but I don’t want
to marry her or anything like that. I ended it before,
but she came back to me and says that she just wants us
to be together while we can. She says she is happy with
being ‘friends with benefits’ and no more than that.

“I just don’t want to hurt her, and I want to know if
it’s better to wrap it up with her now; can we continue
until I move away?”

———

Look…

It’s a woman’s natural tendency, if she’s really into
you, to want you exclusively.

And this creates a problem if you want to keep her
around, BUT STILL FUCK OTHER CHICKS.

And let me tell you all something…

The woman above is definitely not OK just being together
while they can. She’s being careful…

…Biding her time…

…So she can sink her teeth in.

If a chick’s into you, she’s gonna want to lock that
shit down pronto. It’s just in her nature.

So here’s what I suggest you do IF you want keep an open
relationship (or fuck buddy) for months (without the
drama)…

1. Keep the amount of contacts per week down.

2. Make it clear your lifestyle is busy (and a little
crazy). This way she knows intuitively you’re not the
exclusive relationship type.

3. Avoid DTR (define the relationship) discussions by…

* Sidestepping (use funny comebacks then change the
subject)

* High value sidestepping (“Aww, so cute, you’re SO into
me.”)

And remember this:

…If she gives you long term relationship vibes early
on, she’s either…

* Psycho
* Needy
* Looking for a husband
* Or ONLY has interest in long-term relationships.

So, it’s important to QUICKLY figure out if she’s in any
of the above categories…

Because if she is…

You need to GET OUT and start over immediately.

Girls are smart these days…

…Their magazines tell them all kinds of ways to trap
you into a long term relationship without ever bringing
up the topic.

And if she is bringing it up early, the alarm bells
should ring…

You need to stay in control and not allow her to make
you do things you don’t want to do.

Don’t back down unless you’re absolutely certain that’s
what you want.

Talk soon,

Brad P.

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