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Being Positive Magnetizes Pussy

Tue, 30/08/2016

Positivity.

This is one of those intangibles that affect your game
in so many ways.

It affects your outcome that night and it’s a pretty
good predictor of future success.

These days when I look back and I read a few chapters of
Diary of a Pick-Up Artist,
I know that in some of those chapters, when I was still
learning, I didn’t have all my techniques down and I
didn’t have all my routines down, but what I did have
was the POSITIVITY to keep going in pursuing a girl even
if everything had gone wrong.

I’ve noticed that’s something that’s lacking in a lot of
students.

A lot of people who come in for this kind of training,
one of the biggest reasons why they’re not getting laid
is that they are just plain negative.

Let’s try to step back for a second and look at some of
the events that happen to you when you’re in the field,
and let’s try to look at them and say, this is a neutral
stimulus.

From there you can put a positive spin on it, or a
negative spin.

It’s your choice.

The reason we’re going to do that is because every event
that happens in your life or in the field can be
interpreted in many, many different ways. And it’s up
to you how you interpret these things.

Positivity is a habit that you develop on purpose.

Let me give you an example:

I had a student who was in the field the other night.

It was one of his last approaches of the night.

She immediately went hostile on him and said, “You know,
I’ve been watching you for the last hour and a half.
I’ve been wanting you to approach me since I first saw
you and I have a rule, I don’t talk to guys or give them
my number if they didn’t have the confidence to approach
me before last call.”

So basically he approached a girl, who was already
attracted to him and she felt he waited too long and told
him to get lost.

Those are the plain facts. And we can interpret them
either positively or negatively.

Here’s the negative:

He went up to a girl at the end of the night and he
would have liked to approach her sooner, but he was too
scared and she knew that and she felt that that showed a
lot of what’s wrong with him and that’s probably the
reason why he hasn’t been living up to his potential and
she basically told you to get lost because she thought he
was a pussy.

Well that’s horrible and would make just about anyone
feel like shit.

Let’s try a more positive interpretation:

This girl was watching you all night.

She was so attracted to you. She was probably having a
sexual fantasy about you and getting wet just looking at
you.

She watched you talk to probably five other girls and
she was hoping and praying that you’d come up to her.

You have such good game that you can’t even approach all
the girls that are interested in you.

There are just not enough hours in the day for you to
approach all the different girls that are interested in
you.

Therefore, once in a while, a fluke is going to happen
and you might lose one because she didn’t like the
timing of it all, but…

…It feels pretty good to lose one in THAT way.

If you’re going to lose a girl it’s better to lose her
because your schedule is just too full to talk to the
amount of girls that want to talk to you.

Isn’t that a MUCH BETTER way to look at it?

Talk soon,

Brad P.

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What She Really Means by “Nice Guy”

Sun, 28/08/2016

There are some stark realities that men today are
facing.

Most of us are now primarily raised by female teachers
and mothers.

Young boys just aren’t getting much time with adult male
role models.

Because of this, we get a totally warped idea of what
“being nice” means, and it is a set of FEMALE social
skills.

Here is what that looks like:

Be cooperative, be submissive, be a team player, don’t
rock the boat, don’t speak up too much, do whatever you
can to please others, and you will be rewarded in the
end.

THAT is what our mothers and teachers mean when they say
“you should be nice when you get to school. Be nice to
the other kids. Be nice to your grandmother” and things
like that.

But something you must understand is this:

When you switch to the dating context, women say “I want
a nice guy” and this has a TOTALLY DIFFERENT MEANING!

I can’t stress this enough to you.

The meaning of the word “nice” now has no resemblance to
the meaning we grew up with. It might as well be a
completely different word.

Now I’m going to give you the definition of the word
“nice” as used by women in the context of dating and
relationships:

(This is fairly complex, so try to keep an open mind.)

A “nice guy” is a guy who she is already attracted to.
She wants this guy BADLY.

Instead of ignoring her or choosing a different woman
over her, he shows interest in her, gives her
compliments, and gives her attention. He doesn’t have to
do this; he’s doing it because he is “nice”, or
basically a good human being.

A “nice guy” is a guy who is totally dominant over her,
and she would STILL be attracted to him if he did
terrible things to her.

If he cheated on her or roughed her up, she would still
be attracted to him. But since he is “nice,” he decided
to never hit her and never cheat on her, even though he
could IF HE WANTED TO.

A “nice guy” is a guy who could do terrible things and
not lose the girl, but CHOOSES not to.

A “nice guy” is a guy who she has total respect for, and
is even a bit scared of…

…But instead of capitalizing on this fear to exploit
her or damage her, the guy decides to have a reasonable
healthy relationship with her.

A “nice guy” is a guy who makes all the decisions she
doesn’t want to make, and generally comes up with
choices that result in happiness for both people.

He takes charge and gives her what she wants, even when
she is not aware of what she wants.

This is an absolute and totally different definition of
nice guy that what men are brought up to believe.

Are you starting to see why men are so fucking confused
in the dating world and women are all lamenting about
“where have all the good guys gone?”

I’ll bet you’ve seen a lot of evidence of this in your
own lives.

If you have an example or a story to share, I’d love to
hear it.

Talk soon,

Brad P.

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What Stand Up Comedy Can Teach You About Attraction

Fri, 26/08/2016

Hey it’s Brad,

For some of you guys who’ve been around a while, you
know I know a thing or two about attracting and seducing
gorgeous women.

I’ve learned all this through extensive application over
many years…

…And after years of research and testing, I’ve come to
the conclusion that preplanned, scripted openers are the
most effective way to open new women.

For some men, this idea of being “scripted” may be a
hard pill to swallow.

We’d all like to believe that we could just walk up to a
woman and say “Hi, what’s your name?” and have her
totally captivated and attracted.

For most men, including me, that’s just not the case. If
something as simple as that was working for you, you
probably wouldn’t be reading this newsletter.

I’m not suggesting that “Hi, how are you?” will never
work.

I’ve seen it work here and there for guys who are
extremely good looking, charming, or have amazing body
language. However, my goal in everything I do is to
give you strategies that can work for EVERYONE, not just
guys who look like models.

So if you are really stuck on the idea of walking up to
women and saying “hi there” go right ahead and try it
out.

Then after you’ve experienced the low success rate of
this technique first hand, come on back here and get to
work learning some openers.

“Hi there” is what everyone does.

You must set yourself apart from all the annoying men
who bore women with this lame approach.

If you do exactly what everyone else does, you will get
exactly what everyone else gets:

Laid occasionally.

Look…

Women like men who can make them laugh, so think of
yourself as a stand up comedian.

Comedians don’t get up on stage and talk off the top of
their head. They plan ahead and prepare the BEST
POSSIBLE MATERIAL.

Then they evaluate the vibe of the audience and do the
routines that they think will work best.

Then when things are going well, they start to flow into
more spontaneous interaction with the audience.

Like a stand up comedian, you can deliver a few funny
things to start off, and then get into a natural flow of
conversation once you break the ice.

I encourage you to open your mind to new ideas on how to
talk to women, starting with scripted openers.

Are you feeling open minded?

You can learn a few of my killer openers right here.

Talk soon,

Brad P.