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How to kick rejection in the ass and turn it around…

Thu, 27/07/2017

Hey it’s Brad,

A buddy of mine just suffered a fate worse than death.

His name is Aaron and he’s done coaching with me off and on over the years.

Under my guidance, over the years, he’s had some pretty stellar lays. A couple of decent relationships even came out of it.

But like a lot of guys, he has a pretty serious aversion to the pain of rejection.

It’s a common problem.

To listen to Aaron tell it, getting flat out rejected by a woman is the worst thing that can ever happen to you.

Absolutely untrue.

I say rejection saves you TIME.

When you’re gaming women time is a precious commodity.

Rejection is your friend.

Well, Aaron avoided it.

Here’s the story:

There was this perfect 10 with a girl-next-door attitude in his circle of friends and he let himself get hung up on her based on her looks, which is a huge no-no.

What happened is he became afraid to screw it up, so he didn’t game her properly.

And so he opened the door to something far worse:

He got doomed to the dreaded FRIENDZONE.

It’s the most agonizing, painful feeling a guy can suffer.

It destroys your life slowly when you fall in it…

And you spend months or years being misled and taken advantage of by the girl.

(Plus you’re throwing away opportunities for sex with new women because your time is being taken up by this “female friend.”)

Aaron’s friend Tracy wasn’t a cruel girl. But he didn’t make himself a sexual threat and before you know it she’s talking to him about other guys.

It made him sick. It should make him feel sick.

That’s what happens when fear takes over. And you know what?

– He knew better. That’s why he waited so long to call me. He knew he’d get an earful.

Make sure this never happens to you.

Here’s my tip for the day on how to do that:

Force every girl you talk to into either becoming attracted to you or rejecting you… in 3 minutes or less.

This is exactly what I do. And I’ve gotten laid literally hundreds of times from it.

So consider this…

The friend zone is more destructive to your life than rejection could ever be.

Rejection is harmless.

There are ZERO repercussions.

And no one is keeping a permanent record of how many times women reject you.

So every time you start talking to a new woman it’s a clean slate. Even if you got rejected 10 times that night, it wouldn’t matter.

But if this advice is making you uncomfortable, let me tell you why:

Other “experts” prey on your gullibility by teaching you to “avoid rejection” while I teach you to CAPITALIZE on rejection.

This is why I like to say rejection is a gift from God.

It’s the mechanism you can use to avoid the friend zone, and get 10 times more sex than guys who focus on avoiding rejection.

And another huge benefit of being okay with rejection is this…

Women can tell when you’re scared of rejection and it makes their pussy dry up. But when you seem fearless, like you could take it or leave it, they start drooling and imagining getting fucked hard by you.

Do you want the formula to be fearless and get that pussy?

I’ve got the secret right here.

Talk soon,

Brad P.


Fucking her brains out by 11:00…

Sun, 09/07/2017

My clients are winners. Fucking love you guys! (In a
non-weird way…)

Today I’m sharing a success story from a guy who shares
an easy move to get girls back to his place:

———-

“Brad,

I have to thank you for helping me get my mojo back. I’m
31 and recently life has been getting in the way of my
good time. I stumbled on to your web site about a month
ago, and have been breathing new life since.

I have been running game since I was about 22 without
even realizing it. At my best I was pretty good and it
all came naturally since I put no thought or conscious
preparation into my game. But lately I have been stale.

Your thoughts and views run pretty parallel to my own
and you have served as a wake up. Its like a younger,
hungrier version of myself is telling me how lame I’ve
let myself become.

You’ll be happy to know I just finished Black Book
Method and notched up a hot chick.

Met her on the beach around 1pm and was fucking her
brains out around 11pm.

On a side note…. I have a good plan for getting chicks
back to your place. Caipirinhas!

Keep a bottle of Cachaca at your place and learn how to
make this drink… It works like a charm and women love
it.

Brad keep it up, you are doing god’s work!

-Rick”

———-

My thoughts:

Awesome. It seems like he just needed a nudge to put
himself out there. Even if you don’t know anything about
game, simply doing a single approach will automatically
put you closer to success than doing NOTHING.

Now there is nothing “wrong” with most of the guys I
meet. They have their hobbies, a decent job, funny
friends, and aren’t horribly disfigured. But when they
start talking to girls I instantly know that something
is missing: they have zero game.

They don’t know how to talk to a girl. They don’t know
how to touch them. They don’t know how attraction works.
They don’t know that smiling constantly weakens their
cause, and they definitely don’t know how to escalate
the encounter to intimacy.

Here’s why:

While some guys were failing out of college while
partying and getting laid, other guys were putting most
of their free time into their studies or work. They
didn’t learn how to interact with girls and they
definitely didn’t do the practice necessary to get good.

The result of that is that today there are millions of
guys approaching 30 who have no idea how to consistently
pick up girls. They’ve given up without even trying.

I consider myself lucky that I stumbled on game when I
was “young” at 24. Right out of college I started
completely fresh in the bars and clubs of New York City.

I went a little crazy and with a little guidance from
experts, laid down a methodology and a philosophy that
has gotten me and thousands of my clients laid,
constantly, ever since.

If you’re just starting out, I think studying my Black
Book Method will help.

You can learn all about it here.

Talk soon,

Brad P.


Strange Trick to Become Fearless

Sun, 25/06/2017

It’s no secret that fear can mess you up with women…

Whether it’s the fear of talking to a hot girl you see,
the fear of saying something bold that might get you
rejected… or the fear of making your move when she’s
back at your place…

Fear is definitely not your friend!

But there’s another way that fear hurts you, and you’ll
be shocked by how.

As it turns out, there’s a direct connection between
anxiety and STATUS…

In a recent study, Swiss scientists used laboratory mice
to identify how levels of stress inherent to personality
or trait-anxiety can affect one’s competitiveness.

To perform their experiment, a common vitamin was
administered which affects a part of the brain, nucleus
accumbens, that has been related to motivation, reward
and depression. It also notably reduced energy
metabolism in those highly anxious rats.

But this is where it gets interesting…

In one test, they matched high-anxiety rats with the
ones with low-anxiety level and they were brought to
competitive situations. As a result, those who were more
anxious were less competitive when matched with a more
confident rat. Thus, highly anxious rats were less
motivated to compete.

The study, which was published Journal Proceedings of
the National Academy of Science, by neuroscientists at
Brain Mind Institute in Ecole Polytechnique Federale de
Lausanne (EPFL) ultimately found that chronic anxiety
ultimately leads to lower social status.

What Does This Mean for You?

Well, it’s not just your fears with women-but also your
level of stress and anxiety in your daily life that may
be harming you.

Do you like your job or does it kill you to go to work?
How happy are your family relationships?

Do you regularly take time to relax and unwind in deeper
ways?

Do you feel your mind racing all the time?

How would you rate your daily stress or anxiety level?

These are important questions, because daily stress and
anxiety could be weakening you-and leading to feeling
like you are “beneath” others and hurting your chances
with women.

So do you want to know what the best way is to reduce
stress?

Meditation.

And I know it sounds strange to hear this from me.

Meditation used to be this weird, fringe thing that
everybody thought was “woo woo” and now it’s often the
#1 habit people who want to develop…

Not to mention backed by hundreds of studies showing its
ability to reduce stress, lower anxiety and favorably
impact your body and mind in countless ways.

The truth is, you can do just 1-3 minutes and see
results, and as with anything: you’ll find it easier to
do more if you make it easy in the beginning.

So I encourage you: next time you feel stressed, try
counting your breath-inhale to four, exhale to four,
pause for four seconds… and repeat.

Or close your eyes and visualize something positive for
a few minutes to shift your focus.

It’s not hard, and lays the foundation for great
success…

…And might just lead to higher social status 🙂

Talk soon,

Brad P.

PS – And as a compliment to that, you really might want
to work on your Inner Game to defeat fear and stomp
out any kind of beta behavior.

A guy who truly has this down can have shitty game and
still get laid!