Hey it’s Brad,
I just got done straightening out yet another client who was totally blinded by some girls good looks.
I had to remind him, as gently as I could, to put his big boy pants on and stop putting this girl on a fucking pedestal just because God randomly endowed her with amazing genetics.
This is so, so hard for a lot of guys. We are visually stimulated and when girls got it, we lose our common sense and give away our power.
I used to have the exact same frustration.
…And there’s only one way around it that I know:
Don’t approach one woman and call it a day…
… Approach 10 so you get some practice.
Only with practice will you see improvement.
This is the reality that frustrates a lot of guys. If you want to approach women and have amazing interactions that lead to sex, expect it to take some repetition.
The first 3 don’t count; it’s just warm up.
(Kind of like when you’re warming up to pitch nine innings. Your first several pitches probably suck. Perfectly natural.)
…So don’t worry about the warm ups!
And be sure to approach hot girls, average girls, and in between- so you get more practice.
The problem that my client, Aidan, was having was that he was going out, finding the hottest girl, approaching, getting rejected, and giving up for the night.
That’s not the way to do it.
You should still approach the hottest girl, but she should be approach #4 of 10, so you get warmed up first.
And here’s a more advanced idea:
When you do this enough, you start to get immune to beauty.
You see beautiful girls so much that is just doesn’t matter anymore.
It’s the same way that you get used to anything after you’ve been exposed to it repeatedly.
And that’s when you have all the power.
PS – Even with warms ups, you need to know how to swing.
If you don’t know exactly how you’re going to approach and build attraction, then you need to watch this video right now: