My friends in the biz- Neil Strauss and Sinn

Wed, 11/11/2009

Hey all

Just a quick note to let you all know I’ll be stopping by Sinn’s Conference this Friday in LA. If you’re going to that I’ll see you there. Should be a good one, he’s one of the top coaches out there.

I’ll be giving a workshop that’s open to the public this weekend also. This is only the 2nd one I’m doing this year because I’ve mostly been training the guys in the Pickup Mansion.

Speaking of Pickup Mansion, I’m currently interviewing the residents for next year, so be sure to apply soon if you’re interested. This weekend Jake and Gabriel will be teaching the mansion guys in Las Vegas! It’s gonna be an all out, non-stop pickup marathon.

Last bit of news- I had dinner with my buddy Neil Strauss the other day, and he has a new book out this week called “The Secret Code of Seduction.”

More info and a cool pickup video here

In 2003, Neil Strauss, aka “Style” was rated the #1 Pickup Artist in the world. In 2005, his groundbreaking book, “The Game,” gave birth to the seduction community, a self help movement that has touched the lives of millions of people. Since then, Neil Strauss has been considered legendary, a giant among giants, and his advice has been sought after by men across the world. Neil has also broken new ground with the release of “The Rules of the Game,” “The Annihilation Method,” and “The Stylelife Academy.”

Other books written by Neil Strauss include “Emergency: This Book Will Save Your Life,” “Motley Crue: The Dirt,” “How to Make Money Like a Porn Star,” and “How to Make Love Like a Porn Star,” (with Jenna Jameson).

In Neil’s new book, “The Secret Code of Seduction,” Neil has created his most useful, step by step guide to succeeding with women.

You may have been entranced by the drama and action of “The Game,” but how much did you get that you actually used in real life? If you really want to start taking action and are looking for the most specific guide you can get from Neil, look no further. The Secret Code of Seduction is what you should be reading.

More info and a cool pickup video here

How sex can clear your sinuses

Sat, 07/11/2009

This just in!

I’ve experienced a new phenomenon where your stuffy nose can be completely cleared out by having sex. I don’t know how it works, but it works!

It seems to be an added sinus clearing bonus if the girl has big boobs.

More to come on this breaking story….

– Dr. Brad

Natural Converation for Pickup

Thu, 05/11/2009

Happy Halloween all.

Hope you had a good one.

I think halloween must the the greatest day of the year for pickup, with the possible exception of New Years Eve.

My tip of the day for today has to do with making conversation.

There’s 3 main sources of good conversation when talking to women-

1- Pro scripts- these are the lines and routines you learn from top Pickup Artists like me.
2- Self scripts- these are the things you find yourself saying all the time. You may go out and get in a great mood, and you end up saving some of the funny stuff you said for future use.
3- Natural flow- A certain amount of what you talk about should be off the top of your head. You can just recite scripts all the time.

Today we’re going to talk about natural flow. I’m going to teach you a few simple things to make this work better.

First thing to do is make a list of 5 or 10 topics that you are comfortable talking about.

These should be things that you are passionate about, or things that you are knowledgeable about. Almost any topic will work, as long as you are passionate about it.

Women aren’t truly interested in the information, they’re interested in way you express yourself.

Most guys already have a number of topics they can speak comfortably about, they just don’t always give themselves permission to do so.

Next thing you’ll want to work on is how to transition into these topics. The best way to do this is with a “have you ever” question.

At any time, you could say to a girl “Have you ever been to Fiji?” or “Have you ever tried yoga?” This will cause the person you’re talking to to get more personally invested in the topic.

If you have 5 or 10 topics to talk about, and an easy way to transition into them, you’ll be in good shape.

Next thing to learn is what I call “bridging.” This is when you make a pre-existing topic relevant to one of your strong topics, and then switch to the strong topic. You might be weak in talking about old TV shows, but strong in talking about boating and vacationing, so you might say something like “Gilligan’s Island….yes I’ve heard of it. Thats where they get stuck on the boat right? Have you ever been stuck on a boat? I almost got stuck on one in Fiji, I guess my boating skills weren’t quite as expert as I thought….”

So there you have it.

1- Know your strong topics.
2- Use “have you ever” questions to transition.
3- Use bridging to refocus the conversation.

That will give you a good start to learning natural flow.

PS, i was the guy holding the flower.