This has been field tested over 50 times. Women respond to it in a very predictable way.
Set up: Generally I set up attract material by using it in response to a rapport seeking question. I break rapport until they try to seek it, then I break it further with an attract routine like this. You can also set it up by bringing up the topic of having a BF/GF if she is not seeking rapport.
HB: Do you have a GF? (Rapport seeking question and SOI)
BP: No (head down, look all sad, shake my head). (Now wait and look up, back to normal/happy look) I have 8 girlfriends.
HB: You have EIGHT GIRLFRIENDS??!!
BP: Yeah, it’s pretty cool. They all know each other. They hang out sometimes. It sure keeps me busy though.
HB: Wow I’ve never heard of something like that.
BP: Yeah, I know I have a crazy lifestyle.
HB: That’s really something.
BP: Hey you know what, you’re really sweet. I’ve been thinking of getting a 9th girlfriend. Now I don’t usually do this, because we don’t really know each other that well, so don’t tell anyone about this…..but, um….maybe you might want to be my girlfriend?
HB: Sure, but I want to be #1!!
BP: You want to be #1??? But we just met!
HB: Well I’ll only be your GF if I can be #1.
BP: Wow, tough one. Ok check this out. Now I REALLY NEVER DO THIS, but just this one, I’m going to do it for you because you’re really sweet. I can make you #5 right now. Right off the bat, you’re #5. That’s kind of a big deal actually.
HB: No way I want to be #1.
BP: You’ll be able to make it to #1 I think, but you’re going to have to work your way up. You’ll probably have to take me on a few dates, buy me presents, and stuff like that. But I do think you have a good chance. If you really try hard, you can achieve your dreams.
It’s been extensively field tested, and many of my students have watched me run this one.
The women know it’s a joke, they play along with it.
This has been working well. It’s for when you have the girl in isolation but she knows it’s on so she’s using a shield to stop you from escalating.
1. Pillow fight-if the chick is not letting me escalate I just bust her in the head with a pillow. I find sometimes chicks know it’s on so they try to sit somewhere far away, or pet their dog, talk about something else so you don’t start escalating. That’s when they get the pillow to the head. This starts to get them heated up.
2. Tickling- just tickle the girl a bit. Not too much cause if they get totally giggly sometimes it’s hard to bring the energy back down to something manageable.
3. Pick her up, throw her on the bed.
5. The capper is “stop hitting yourself!” For those who don’t have an older sibling, this is when you just grab the chick’s hand and start smacking her in her head with her own hand while saying “Stop hitting yourself.” Over and over. They feel very frustrated but also dominated. Of course don’t hit too hard, just hard enough to make her feel helpless and dominated.
From there’s it’s pretty easy to go into kissing or hair pulling and you’ve dismantled whatever shield she was using.