Natural Converation for Pickup

Thu, 05/11/2009

Happy Halloween all.

Hope you had a good one.

I think halloween must the the greatest day of the year for pickup, with the possible exception of New Years Eve.

My tip of the day for today has to do with making conversation.

There’s 3 main sources of good conversation when talking to women-

1- Pro scripts- these are the lines and routines you learn from top Pickup Artists like me.
2- Self scripts- these are the things you find yourself saying all the time. You may go out and get in a great mood, and you end up saving some of the funny stuff you said for future use.
3- Natural flow- A certain amount of what you talk about should be off the top of your head. You can just recite scripts all the time.

Today we’re going to talk about natural flow. I’m going to teach you a few simple things to make this work better.

First thing to do is make a list of 5 or 10 topics that you are comfortable talking about.

These should be things that you are passionate about, or things that you are knowledgeable about. Almost any topic will work, as long as you are passionate about it.

Women aren’t truly interested in the information, they’re interested in way you express yourself.

Most guys already have a number of topics they can speak comfortably about, they just don’t always give themselves permission to do so.

Next thing you’ll want to work on is how to transition into these topics. The best way to do this is with a “have you ever” question.

At any time, you could say to a girl “Have you ever been to Fiji?” or “Have you ever tried yoga?” This will cause the person you’re talking to to get more personally invested in the topic.

If you have 5 or 10 topics to talk about, and an easy way to transition into them, you’ll be in good shape.

Next thing to learn is what I call “bridging.” This is when you make a pre-existing topic relevant to one of your strong topics, and then switch to the strong topic. You might be weak in talking about old TV shows, but strong in talking about boating and vacationing, so you might say something like “Gilligan’s Island….yes I’ve heard of it. Thats where they get stuck on the boat right? Have you ever been stuck on a boat? I almost got stuck on one in Fiji, I guess my boating skills weren’t quite as expert as I thought….”

So there you have it.

1- Know your strong topics.
2- Use “have you ever” questions to transition.
3- Use bridging to refocus the conversation.

That will give you a good start to learning natural flow.

PS, i was the guy holding the flower.

Brad P. in field Pickup Video

Wed, 04/11/2009

The good news is that there’s finally a video of me picking up girls available on the internet. The bad news is that it’s from a long time ago, and you have to guess which guy is me.


Check back on my blog tomorrow for the answer.

I am So Proud of the 30/30 Coaches- Look at the Forum

Mon, 02/11/2009

I just got an email from a guy who wants to join the 30/30 Club, but he had a bad experience in another similar 12 month program, and has lots of concerns.

Here’s an excerpt-

“The forums were absolutely atrocious. Of course, there were his coaches who were supposedly supposed to help us become a mPUA. Only one coach in particular was dedicated to posting on the forum and getting some missions out but they were not personalized at all so we were left to our own devices. When the coaches did post something, it was usually of little use in terms of information and almost came off as condescending. I don’t believe I’ve ever got any positive feedback that helped me learn from my mistakes. They would rarely post at all and would give one sentence answers and not explain their positions. The program’s founder, himself, was barely ever on the forum and never even seen him post one topic. Which really pissed me off.”

I just want to say that I am so proud of my 30/30 coaches, because we have never put a student in a situation like this. The 30/30 coaches are amazing. They are on the forum a the time. I go on every day also.

My coaches are a guys who are truly getting laid, and they make hundreds of posts helping others.

So I’m going to give everyone a sneak peak into my forum.

Here’s 2 screenshots where you can see all the top posters in my forum. I am still the #1 poster, but there’s a lot of other people giving students tremendous value.

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Let me tell you about these guys.

Next 2 after me are REAL WORKSHOP COACHES Hyper and Jake P. These guys have world class game and can do things that would amaze you.

Also included on the list are:
My moderators Drew and “Everybody.” These guys are not just IT types, they are real gamers who get laid from cold approach.

Pickup Mansion residents Ray and Dylan McKay- These guys are basically experts in pickup at this point. They both get laid off cold approach… Dylan has more girls chasing him than he has time to date, and it seems Ray has been fisting girls lately, so in case anyone wants to learn fisting game, visit our forum.

There’s also Speed, Shine, and Sam65. These guys started out as regular guys and now they have major skills. They learned it all in 30/30 and now they’re giving back.

Also, Gabriel is in the top posters, who has been a seasoned veteran workshop coach. He was on my world tour with me in 2008. Rounding out the top 10 is Dale P, our australian coach with over 30 cold approach LRs on the 30/30 forum.

I think the pictures speak for themselves.

One ast note- please dont sign up to the forum unless you are a registered 30/30 member. We don’t let anyone in unless we are certain they are committed to doing real fieldwork.

Join here