Hey it's Brad P,
I've noticed that some guys have a problem with continually
expecting the worst to happen.
And quite often they're doing it without even realizing.
But here's the important part about expectations and
Successful people don't really have a "let down."
When something doesn't work out as expected, they're happy
to receive the lessons that come from it.
They don't call it a "failure" or "a let down." They just
call it experience.
But on the flip side...
Less successful people don't look for lessons. Instead they
just want everything handed to them. And then they whine and
complain when success doesn't come easy.
So with this in mind, when you do have a setback, don't beat
Instead, analyze what's gone wrong and the lesson to be
learned from the situation.
You see, there's nothing wrong with making mistakes, as long
you're prepared to learn from them... and avoid them in the
In fact the most successful people in history made a
shitload of mistakes along the way.
And as far as meeting and attracting women, exactly the same
But also keep in mind...
When you assume something more optimistic, you usually get a
So, what can you do to beat these poor expectations?
Well, for a start you can avoid immediately putting
negativity on things. Instead try to be objective.
You want to quiet down that voice in your head that says, "I
But having said that...
It's not easy to become positive overnight. It's a huge
challenge to immediately create positivity where all that
negativity used to be.
So sometimes there has to be an in-between step, which is to
just look at things without a positive or negative meaning
attached to it.