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The 5 Deadly Sins Of A NEEDY Guy

Hey, it's Brad P.

Showing signs of sexual neediness is one of the biggest problems for a lot of guys.

It can trap you into a vicious circle... the less sex you get, the more you need sex.

And women can easily pick up on these signals too.

But what can you do about it?

Well, the best way is to firstly become aware of the behavior that sets off the signals... and to then eliminate it.

So, here are some of the most obvious things that SCREAM OUT how sexually needy you are.

1. Being available all the time. When a hot girl asks you to go somewhere, it can be very hard to refuse. But if you're always available, she's going to think you haven't got any other options.

2. Initiating phone calls or texting all day long. This is similar to the above. If you're smothering her with communication it's going to raise red flags at her end. Instead, give her some space and time to miss you.

3. Being overly nice all the time. If you act like a pussy, you're going to get treated like one. A better idea is to be the badass who does what he wants, when he wants, with whom he wants... which is much more sexy to a woman.

4. If you're constantly buying her gifts. She'll just feel like you're trying to buy sex from her. The more things you buy, the more pressure there is to repay you in some way... which just pisses her off.

5. You're in constant agreement with everything she says. After a while she'll pick up on this, and want to throw up. She'll see you're not genuine and full of shit... so you're better off speaking your mind, and having your own opinions.

So, if you're guilty of any of the above, here's a couple of suggestions...

Firstly, you wanna break rapport with women often.

Make her curious about you and keep her on her toes... and you can do that by using these exact lines:

[+] "I'm a bit out of your league,"

[+] "Did you know women have a smaller brain than men? It's true. It's science." Then later... "You just think that because you have a small brain."

[+] "I'm gonna have to ask you to back up a bit, you're getting in my personal space. Don't make me call security. They'll throw you in the pile with all the other women who are obsessed with me."

The other thing you can do is to point out that you know the deal, and she's not fooling you. You know she has orbiters and you laugh at them.

Here's some lines for this...

[+] "Whoa, you got the wrong guy. You should call one of your little bitch boys to help with that."

[+] "Hmmm I bet a lot of guys hit on you, and it's pretty boring. I know all about it. A lot of girls hit on me too... BOOOORING."

Talk soon,

Brad P.

10 Reasons To NEVER Go On A Dinner Date

Hey, it's Brad P,

I want you to think back over all the dinner dates you've had in the past...

And then work out how many of them finished with sex the very same night?

I'm guessing it wouldn't be very many... possibly zero.

There's a good reason for this - dinner dates are usually about as exciting as doing tax returns.

So why are they so popular then?

Well, everybody's been doing them for generations.

It's the accepted norm.

But that's not thinking outside the square.

Those who are switched on have realized you've gotta do something different... and make it more stimulating and interesting.

The idea is to make it FUN by going for a more relaxed and casual atmosphere... the less awkward the better.

So, here are some alternatives to get you thinking.

1. Take her for a long hike out in the wilderness.

2. Go for a bike ride together

3. Go rock climbing or abseiling

4. Play golf

5. Go on a picnic in a nice park

6. Do a Salsa lesson together (a good way to make physical contact and get close to her)

7. Go for a swim at the beach (don't forget to rub the sunscreen on her)

8. Go to the movies or a sports game

9. Go Ten Pin Bowling

10. Invite her over to your place to watch a movie. This is perfect... as sexual tension can develop while you're relaxing on the couch (or in the bed) together.

The point is to stay away from dinner dates. Completely ban them.

Not only will you save a lot of money, you'll also get laid a lot more.

Talk soon,

Brad P.

The 7 Worst Orbiter Mistakes

Hey, it's Brad P.

Quiz time... what does every single HOT woman on the planet possess?

Answer... her own loyal group of orbiters.

These are the guys who act outrageously nice towards her...

Doing her favor after favor...

And hoping their "nice deeds" will be repaid with sex.

Some girls take advantage of this more than others. But most of them know exactly what they're up to... and why they're so nice to them.

Let me explain...

There are many ways orbiters try to impress women... here are 7 of the most common:

1. Becoming her taxi driver... who doesn't get paid.

2. Buying her lots of gifts. Flowers, chocolates, jewelry, shoes - you name it.

3. Offering to pay her bills/expenses.

4. Taking her out for lunch/dinner and paying for it.

5. Calling or texting her all the time. No, she doesn't want to hear from you 10 times a day.

6. Offering to fix things... such as her car, computer, or TV.

7. Doing household chores... such as mowing her lawn, washing dishes, or vacuuming.

Bottom line... these activities are all a waste of time, IF you're expecting sex in return.

It's completely the wrong way to go about seducing her.

Instead you want to be doing the direct opposite, such as:

[+] Playing hard to get

[+] Being unpredictable

[+] Showing her you've got other options

[+] Being assertive

Do these and she'll start to respect you.

Hell, she might even start chasing you.

You see... whoever does the chasing relinquishes all the power to the other person.

And the MORE you chase her and try hard to impress her, the LESS chance you've got of bending her over and pounding her.

The orbiter (just like a guy she views as a creep or someone in her friend zone) has ZERO chance of getting her into bed...

It's a path that's destined to lead towards being an average frustrated chump.

Talk soon,

Brad P.

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