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The ONLY Way to Seduce Her With a Compliment...

Here's something a lot of guys completely mess up...

Giving women a lot of compliments.

I just read this great article on
called, "Why Don't My Compliments Work on Women?"

You can read it here...

The author, a woman, lists things like objectifying,
coming off creepy, and being annoying, as the way a lot
of women receive compliments from men.

She's absolutely right.

Women are tired of guys complimenting them all the time
because it shows sexual neediness...

...Which makes them want to run the other way as fast as

You know what would be a much smarter approach?

...Compliment her FRIENDS instead.

Yes, I realize it sounds counter-intuitive. But...

...It works because it makes your target girl want to
seek your approval by activating her COMPETITIVE streak.

If you're complimenting her friends then she will
automatically want your approval too.

It's a knee jerk reaction that she can't even help.

Female psychology is fun :)

Having said that, there is ONE situation where giving
compliments to your target girl IS a good idea...

And that's when it's pretty clear she has lower social
value than you and therefore doesn't have a "chance"
with you.

In this case it's a good idea to pump up her tires, so
to speak, and make her feel better about herself.

But whatever you do, make sure the compliments you give

This can be crazy effective when you do it right.

Talk soon,

Brad P.

PS - Listen, if you want to have the ability to
effortlessly talk to almost any girl you like...

...And ALWAYS know how to turn her on, using all the
tricks (like complementing her friends)...

...You may want to check out my Black Book Method,
if you don't have it yet.

What to Do When She Goes CRAZY on You

Sometimes when a girl goes bat-shit crazy on you, it's
absolutely not your fault.

If you approach a woman and it doesn't go well, it could
have to do with A LOT of outside factors.

Maybe the girl is mentally screwed up. Maybe she just

...Or maybe you and her are just totally incompatible.

That doesn't necessarily mean you have lousy game.

For example, if one girl tells you that your clothes
suck, you should disregard her opinion.

However, if 10 girls tell you that your clothes suck,
THEN you should make a change.

I know this seems like common sense, but you'd be
surprised how fast some guys can get thrown off track by
one rejection.

Not letting rejection slow you down is the thing that
separates the MEN from the BOYS.

Let me give you an example of what I mean:

One time I met a woman through my social circle.

She was a friend of a (female) friend.

Both of these women were successful fashion models. They
had been partying all night, and I hung around and
partied with them until 5am.

I used this great technique where I give the girl a
guitar and tell her to strum it with her right hand.
Then I do all the fret work with my left hand, and she
feels like she has instantly become an awesome guitar

Chicks love that.

After a few hours, I managed to isolate her back at my

But, when I got her alone, she went completely cold. She
complained about my outfit, my place, and wouldn't let
me touch her at all. She'd just say, "Don't touch me.
I'm selective."

She gave me nothing but negative vibes. Finally, I
figured I'd get her out of my house.

I said to myself "Wow I sure did creep that girl out.

She went from interested to 'don't touch me' in just
minutes. My game must really suck tonight."

The next day, my friends told me "When we took that girl
home, she couldn't stop talking about you. She was way
into you!"

This was a shocker to me, since she seemed bitchy and
disinterested the whole time.

It turns out that there were some additional factors I
wasn't aware of which made this girl act cold even
though she was interested.

Factor 1- she had broken up with her boyfriend the day
before, and didn't want to have sex for a while.

Factor 2- she was starting a fashion line with my female
friend, and was worried that if she fucked me she would
look like a slut and my friend would not work with her.

My female friend who was setting all of this up is a
famous supermodel who has been on the cover of every
major magazine. She's a pretty big deal, and the girl
who liked me was paranoid about being on her bad side.

Their business connection is more important than any
amount of sex could ever be.

After my friends told me about all of this, I realized
that I hadn't done any crappy game, and the problem
wasn't me.

The problem was HER!!!

She liked me and wanted to date me, but she was too
screwed up in the head to move towards that goal.

So try to remember:

A bad result with one girl doesn't mean anything. Wait
and see how the next 9 girls respond before you draw any

That is how a winner thinks.

Talk soon,

Brad P.

PS - When you're ready to think and score like a winner,
check out my Black Book Method. It's all you need to go
from zero to totally badass.

The One Thing WORSE Than Rejection...

When you're getting good with women, there are
definitely going to be setbacks along the way.

There will be rejections and the occasional

...But you know what is the worse thing ever?

This is worse than any humiliation or rejection...

Worse than waterboarding...

Or a tax audit...

...Getting doomed to the dreaded FRIENDZONE.

It's the most agonizing, painful feeling you'll ever
feel. It's like being in perpetual limbo.

It's the biggest mistake I see guys make.

And I say mistake, because it's totally avoidable.

Think about it, when you let some chick put you in the
friendzone, you spend months, sometimes years, being
misled and taken advantage of.

And even worse, you're throwing away opportunities for
sex with new women because your time is being taken up
by this "female friend."

Avoid this at all costs.

Here's my tip for the day on HOW to not let yourself
fall into this trap:

Force every girl you talk to into either becoming
attracted to you or rejecting you... in 3 minutes or

The friend zone is more destructive to your life than
rejection could ever be.

Rejection is harmless.

There are ZERO repercussions.

And no one is keeping a permanent record of how many
times women reject you.

So every time you start talking to a new woman it's a
CLEAN SLATE. Even if you got rejected 10 times that
night, it wouldn't matter.


Other "experts" prey on your gullibility by teaching you
to "avoid rejection" while I teach you to CAPITALIZE on

This is why I like to say rejection is a gift from God.

Use it well and it will keep you out of the friendzone

And another huge benefit of being okay with rejection is

Women can tell when you're scared of rejection and it
makes their pussy dry up. But when you seem fearless,
like you could take it or leave it, they start drooling
and imagining getting fucked HARD by you.

When you focus on getting attraction or getting blown
out in three seconds, YOU will be that hot fearless guy
that gets her pussy all a tinglin'.

Talk soon,

Brad P.

PS - Were you wondering how to build attraction that

Take a look at this video.

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