“Get a life!!!!!”
…That’s what William Shatner, Star Trek’s Captain Kirk
screamed at a bunch of geeks in a now famous (or
infamous) Saturday Night Live skit almost 30 years ago.
It was intended to be all in good fun but it struck a
nerve and the “Shat” took some serious flak for that
A lot of times when we kid or make fun, we’re making
light of something that’s real. But the damage was done
and “Get a life” kind of caught as a pop culture
It became something you shouted at people you perceived
as geeks, dorks, and nerds. You know the type; smart,
eccentric; into nerdy things like science fiction, and
…Basically the whole cast of Big Bang Theory.
Which is the exact opposite of cool, easy going and
attractive to women.
A lot of these geeky guys may get a scholarship to MIT,
but they will never see a vagina for the rest of their
natural born lives.
But it doesn’t need to be that way.
You see the great thing about nerds is that they are
They problem solve. In crime shows and buddy cop action
movies, it’s always the smart nerdy guy who hacks into
the mainframe, invents the gizmo, and basically does
crazy shit that no one else can do to help save the day.
Well, in the real world, a lot of these guys are getting
fed up with being invisible to women and they find their
way to me.
My heart goes out to frustrated lonely guys who don’t
get the sex and attention they want from women.
I started out a geek. I know their frustration.
I pour everything I’ve got into helping these guys.
Their success is my legacy.
And that’s what I want to share with you today.
I compiled a book. It’s called “Geeks Get Girls”.
It chronicles the journey of my than 100 of my students
who started the journey as sexless geeks and are now
getting laid like crazy.
It’s inspiring and I think you’ll find it empowering.