Getting women is not difficult.
The fact is, most guys make it out to be way more work
than it is.
I see this over and over and over again with new
They get discouraged because they get exhausted,
spending so time and energy doing the wrong things and
their getting NO results.
They are not working smart. They are wasting their time
on activities that are a very low return on investment.
Look, when I was in high school and college, I was
pathetic. I missed out on all the pussy.
…. And it wasn’t for lack of effort.
I broke my ass for STATUS. I was captain of the
basketball team; I got straight A’s I was even in a
couple of rock bands.
All that effort got me a net sum total of zero girls.
It was not the activity that was going to get me any
pussy. I wish someone could have told me that then.
When new clients come to me they are usually doing
something very similar, doing certain activities to get
women that are a misguided waste of time.
Let me give you two examples:
1. These guys are frequently going out to bars or
restaurants to meet women.
Their thinking is that there is a good ratio of women to
men. Look, there may be 50 percent women and 50 percent
men, and you think that’s good odds, but it’s really
The only ratio that really matters is the number of men
that are actually TALKING to women. And that’s like
You can approach women pretty much anywhere. Stop
wasting your money and your nights in bars.
2. This is a bad one: Orbiting the same girl for
month’s and years, even thought she doesn’t like the
He’s hoping maybe she’ll change her mind.
Let me tell you something, once you’ve been friendzoned,
that’s it. She’s never going to change her mind.
Guys in this situation always like to say, “Well, I’m
working on her”.
Don’t be that guy. Don’t delude yourself.
In fact, you know what you should do? Identify any
girls in your life who have friendzoned you. It’s a
Look, you are both lying….
She strings you along for favors. She’s not stupid, she
knows full well you want to fuck her.
…And you are lying to her by pretending to be her
friend. The relationship has no value.
Delete her number.
So after all this ‘what not to do’, are you wondering
what SHOULD you be doing?
It’s a great question, and I just put out a new audio
that tells you EXACTLY how to be spending your time and
It’s called Work Smarter, Not Harder and it’s an
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PS. – I’ll give you one hint of a HIGHLY leveraged
activity: get good with online dating and you can line
up my dates and sex than most men can make time for in a
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news to follow…