In my book “Diary of a Pickup Artist,” I talk all about
how I get rejected ALL THE TIME by women.
It’s completely normal for me to meet 10 women in a
night, get ruthlessly rejected by 2 or 3 of them, but
still end up taking home a hot chick by closing time.
For me, rejection is just part of the process. I am not
ashamed or embarrassed about the fact that women reject
me every single day.
When I first put my book out, people were surprised that
I was getting rejected so much, and even more surprised
that I was talking openly about it and how I handle it.
So I’m going to make this e-mail all about blowouts so
you can learn to use them to your advantage.
It’s totally FREE and it will blow your mind what’s
Let me begin by pointing out that EVERYONE is going to
get rejected sometimes. I don’t care how good you are;
no one can pick up every girl every time.
I frequently see students working on their game, and
it’s obvious that they still fear rejection.
If you expect to be some kind of lady killer Zen master
super player, and you want to get 9s and 10s, yet you
still fear rejection and embarrassment, then that shows
you’re pretty naive about what it takes to get good at
Rejection and embarrassment are temporary conditions,
which go away very quickly.
Being able to deal with situations that would be
embarrassing to most people is a PREREQUISITE to
succeeding with women.
If you’re letting little things like embarrassment and
social pressure stand in your way, you probably don’t
have the balls to attain massive success with women.
Having balls is the #1 most important thing you need to
succeed with women.
If you’re trying to be a big player there will be
constant challenges with every new girl and you need to
be able to stand up to them. CONSTANT challenges.
It never lets up. You have to get used to it.
Even if you don’t want to be a player, you just want to
get a girlfriend and be happy, there will be constant
If you don’t have balls, your girlfriend is going to turn
you into her little bitch boy.
That’s just the way women are.
I hear people looking for openers and techniques that
will open 100% of the time. I think that can be a little
Because for most guys, the search for that 100% open
rate is a sign of FEAR. When you have fear you tend to
play it safe. Women know you’re playing it safe, and
they can smell fear.
Look, there are all kinds of women out there. Some are
compatible with you and some are not. The goal of your
opener should not be to get every girl to talk to you.
The goal should be this:
To find out ASAP whether this girl is what you’re
looking for. Force the girl to show her true colors.
If your purpose is to screen and evaluate the girl, that
is something women pick up on. It’s very attractive.
It’s a different motivation. You are not motivated by
fear of embarrassment.
You are not motivated by ego or the need to prove that
you can open well.
Instead, you are motivated by the confident belief that
there are plenty women out there whom you would click
with, and it’s just a matter of feeling a few girls out
until you find one.
Get that motivation right, and rejected will roll off
your back like it’s nothing.
And you’ll put out a super attractive vibe.