I was just having a conversation with one of my clients
who, on my recommendation, tore through My Black Book
Method and started using some of the easy to implement
suggestions I gave him.
He’s got more dates (and more pussy) in the last four
months than in his ENTIRE life up to that point.
It was like flipping a switch in his brain.
He went from this:
In just a few months.
Powerful. He’s an amazing student. He learns my stuff
and goes out and applies it.
But Daniel is also a perfectionist and got it in his
head that he was doing something “wrong”.
He noted that when he meets a new hot girl he’s doing
most of the talking and that’s somehow bad.
There is nothing wrong with that – Daniel is right on
You are SUPPOSED to do most of the talking at first.
Have I gone over the 90/10 rule in this newsletter yet?
…The 90/10 rule means that YOU are talking 90% of the
time and the girl is talking 10% of the time.
If that ratio is occurring early on in your approaches
you are doing GREAT.
(If she is talking less than 10% of the time, that’s not
good cause it’s like you’re lecturing her.)
But girls tend to not talk at all sometimes, so you have
to ask a question, or get her to agree with something
just to get her to hold up her 10%.
Now if you don’t know the 90/10 rule (or, like Daniel,
you just forgot it because you’re too busy kicking ass)
you might feel like it’s a negative that the girl isn’t
Not the case at all.
So how do you know if you’re doing well?
She’s still standing there listening. If she doesn’t
walk away, chances are you’re doing fine.
That is a USEFUL assumption, even if it’s not always
true, because it will make you project confidence.
Besides you couldn’t spark massive attraction if SHE
were doing all the talking.
Let me show you how to say a few simple innocent things
to the women you meet.
It’ll be like flipping an attraction switch in her
PS – Black Book Method is a complete system of approach.
It actually targets the arousal centers of a woman’s
brain so she’ll want to please you in any way she can.